An autism diagnosis can be difficult for the entire family. Creating a safe and supportive environment for everyone, especially kids and siblings, is important. Talking with them about the diagnosis is not an easy task; however, it can be done in a thoughtful manner. Let’s explore some ways parents can talk with kids about an autism diagnosis in an effective way.
Explain What Autism Is
Before talking to your kids or siblings about the diagnosis, it’s important to make sure they understand what autism is. Explain that autism is a complex developmental disorder affecting how people think, act, and interact. Be sure to emphasize that no two people have identical experiences of autism; each person has their own unique set of strengths and challenges.
Be Open About Your Feelings
Letting your kids know how you feel about the diagnosis is also important. You may choose to use language like “I am feeling sad/worried/anxious/happy/hopeful/etc.,” so they don’t think all emotions are negative or scary — but that it’s ok to feel those too. Let them know they can come to you if they want to talk more or ask questions about the diagnosis or anything else related to it.
Validate Their Feelings
It’s natural for kids and siblings to have a variety of feelings when someone in their family receives an autism diagnosis—they may feel scared, angry, confused, hopeful, etc.—so try not to discount their feelings as invalid or wrong. Remind them that being open about emotions is healthy and normal, which will help ensure that future conversations on this topic are productive and positive!
Talking with kids and siblings after receiving an autism diagnosis isn’t easy — but it doesn’t have to be daunting either! With thoughtful preparation, parents can start meaningful conversations that will help create a safe and supportive environment for everyone involved. For more information on how you can get started on your ABA therapy journey with Circle City ABA, visit our website at circlecityaba.com today!
