Children thrive when they can adapt, try new things, and handle small changes. These skills all fall under the category of flexible thinking. Flexible thinking helps children adapt their ideas, adjust when plans change, and remain calm when something differs from what they expected.
But flexible thinking is not something children learn all at once. It grows gradually, through daily moments. The good news is that families can support this skill in simple ways at home, in the community, and during play.
Below, we explore what flexible/open thinking entails and how parents can help their child develop it naturally.
What Flexible Thinking Means for Children
Flexible thinking helps children respond positively when things change. It also helps them solve problems and try new ideas.
A child uses flexible thinking when they:
- Consider a different toy when their favorite one is unavailable.
- Choose another seat at the table when someone sits in their usual spot.
- Try a new way to open a container that feels tricky.
- Stay calm when a game has new rules.
Many children find change hard. That is normal. Flexible thinking gives them tools to handle these moments with confidence.
Why It Is Important
Flexible thinking supports success in many areas of life. It supports communication, learning, friendships, and problem-solving.
Here are a few ways it helps children every day:
- It supports communication. Children learn that there can be more than one answer during conversations. This helps them express themselves and understand others.
- It helps with emotional regulation. When children can shift plans, they feel less frustrated by surprises.
- It strengthens problem-solving. Children who practice flexible thinking learn to try new ideas when something feels hard.
- It improves social skills. Social play often requires compromise. Flexible thinkers can adapt to new game rules or share ideas with others.
Because flexible thinking supports so many areas, families are always seeking practical ways to help their child develop this skill at home.
How to Practice Flexible Thinking in Everyday Moments
Parents do not need special materials or formal instruction. Every day moments offer natural opportunities to build open thinking.
Below are simple, real-life examples that families can try.
Use Play to Support Flexible Thinking
Play is one of the best ways to teach this skill. Children learn through exploration and imagination.
You might:
- Switch roles in pretend play.
- Try new ways to build with blocks.
- Change the rules in a simple game.
- Invite your child to create a new ending to a favorite story.
These small shifts help children learn to adapt while having fun.
Practice During Routines
Daily routines create predictable learning opportunities.
For example:
- Choose a different cup at breakfast.
- Walk a new route to the car.
- Start brushing teeth before picking pajamas.
- Have your child help decide a new order for simple tasks.
These minor adjustments help children learn that change can feel safe.
Model Flexible Thinking Out Loud
Children learn from what they hear and see. Parents can model flexible thinking by talking through their own experiences.
You might say:
- I wanted to make pancakes, but we ran out of mix. I can choose waffles instead.
- I planned to read outside, but it started to rain. I can read inside instead.
When children hear these examples, they learn how to navigate change with confidence.
Celebrate Attempts, Not Just Successes
Trying something new is a big part of flexible thinking. Celebrate the effort.
Phrases like:
- You tried another way.
- You found a new idea.
- You changed the plan and did a great job.
These moments help children feel proud of their growth.
How ABA Therapy Supports Flexible Thinking
ABA therapy can help children practice flexible thinking in structured but natural ways. Therapists use play, communication activities, and problem-solving tasks to help children build confidence.
At Circle City ABA, open thinking is woven into everyday learning. Therapists help children:
- Try new ideas during play.
- Practice changes in routine.
- Strengthen communication skills.
- Build resilience when things feel different.
Families also learn how to support flexible thinking at home. This fosters a strong partnership and supports children’s progress across all areas of life.
How To Start ABA Therapy With Circle City ABA
Circle City ABA is here to help families understand their child’s needs and begin services with confidence. Our team guides the very first call through your child’s first day of therapy.
You can contact Circle City ABA by:
Calling 317-641-0204
Visiting www.circlecityaba.com
Contact our admissions team for more information on our services and how we can support you and your child. Find a location near you! We serve Arizona, Georgia, Indiana, Iowa, and Nebraska.
